Nel Dis\u00adcor\u00adso del\u00adla Mon\u00adtagna, Ges\u00f9 par\u00adla anche del matri\u00admo\u00adnio e del divor\u00adzio. Poi\u00adch\u00e9 l\u2019al\u00adle\u00adan\u00adza matri\u00admo\u00adnia\u00adle \u00e8 fon\u00adda\u00admen\u00adtal\u00admen\u00adte san\u00adta e indis\u00adso\u00adlu\u00adbi\u00adle, lo fa in modo mol\u00adto restrit\u00adtivo. L\u2019u\u00adni\u00adca ragio\u00adne che legit\u00adti\u00adma il divor\u00adzio e il ris\u00adpo\u00adsar\u00adsi \u00e8 la for\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne. Pro\u00adba\u00adbilm\u00aden\u00adte Ges\u00f9 pu\u00f2 fis\u00adsa\u00adre uno stan\u00addard cos\u00ec alto solo per\u00adch\u00e9 crea un cuo\u00adre nuo\u00advo nei suoi segu\u00adaci e quin\u00addi li ren\u00adde capa\u00adci di esse\u00adre fede\u00adli e di amare.<\/p>\n
\tLa scuo\u00adla di Sham\u00admais dice: si trat\u00adta esclu\u00adsi\u00adv\u00ada\u00admen\u00adte di for\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne e pro\u00adsti\u00adtu\u00adzi\u00ado\u00adne o quan\u00addo l\u2019uo\u00admo scop\u00adre la pri\u00adma not\u00adte di noz\u00adze che la don\u00adna non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 vergine. La doman\u00adda dei faris\u00adei in Matteo 19:3 mira a ques\u00adte due inter\u00adpre\u00adta\u00adzio\u00adni. Vole\u00adva\u00adno sape\u00adre se Ges\u00f9 appar\u00adten\u00ade\u00adva alla scuo\u00adla pi\u00f9 libe\u00adra\u00adle o pi\u00f9 con\u00adser\u00advatri\u00adce. Ges\u00f9 non rispon\u00adde a ques\u00adta doman\u00adda, ma mos\u00adtra il signi\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adto del matri\u00admo\u00adnio. Che il matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 un\u2019al\u00adle\u00adan\u00adza sacra e che il ses\u00adso sug\u00adgel\u00adla ques\u00adta alleanza. \tPer\u00adch\u00e9 il matri\u00admo\u00adnio ha un valo\u00adre cos\u00ec alto agli occhi di Dio ed \u00e8 indissolubile? Nel Dis\u00adcor\u00adso del\u00adla Mon\u00adtagna, Ges\u00f9 par\u00adla anche di matri\u00admo\u00adnio e divor\u00adzio. Poi\u00adch\u00e9 l\u2019al\u00adle\u00adan\u00adza matri\u00admo\u00adnia\u00adle \u00e8 fon\u00adda\u00admen\u00adtal\u00admen\u00adte san\u00adta e indis\u00adso\u00adlu\u00adbi\u00adle, lo fa in modo mol\u00adto restrit\u00adtivo. L\u2019u\u00adni\u00adco motivo che legit\u00adti\u00adma il divor\u00adzio e il nuo\u00advo matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 la for\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne. Pro\u00adba\u00adbilm\u00aden\u00adte Ges\u00f9 pu\u00f2 sta\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adre uno stan\u00addard cos\u00ec alto solo per\u00adch\u00e9 crea un cuo\u00adre nuo\u00advo nei suoi segu\u00adaci e quin\u00addi incorag\u00adgia la fedelt\u00e0.\u2026<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","wpfc_preacher":[23],"wpfc_sermon_series":[72],"wpfc_sermon_topics":[],"wpfc_bible_book":[],"wpfc_service_type":[12],"class_list":{"0":"wpfc_preacher-matthias-altwegg","1":"wpfc_sermon_series-metamorphose","2":"wpfc-sermon-single","3":"post-3483","4":"wpfc_sermon","5":"type-wpfc_sermon","6":"status-publish","7":"hentry","10":"wpfc_service_type-gottesdienst"},"acf":[],"sermons_blog_filters_topics":"\t\t\t\t
\nIl matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 un chi\u00ado\u00ads\u00adtro che Dio ha scel\u00adto per ren\u00adder\u00adci pi\u00f9 simi\u00adli a Lui. La meta\u00admor\u00adfo\u00adsi ha lo stes\u00adso obi\u00adet\u00adtivo. Ci\u00f2 signi\u00adfi\u00adca che il matri\u00admo\u00adnio pu\u00f2 esse\u00adre un cata\u00adliz\u00adza\u00adto\u00adre ver\u00adso la somi\u00adgli\u00adanza con Dio. Ecco per\u00adch\u00e9 Ges\u00f9 par\u00adla anche del matri\u00admo\u00adnio nel suo inseg\u00adna\u00admen\u00adto sul\u00adla vir\u00adt\u00f9, nel Dis\u00adcor\u00adso del\u00adla Mon\u00adtagna: \u00abAve\u00adte sen\u00adti\u00adto che nella Leg\u00adge di Mos\u00e8 si dice: \u00abUn uomo pu\u00f2 divor\u00adzia\u00adre da sua mog\u00adlie se le d\u00e0 una fat\u00adtu\u00adra di divor\u00adzio\u00bb. Ma io dico che se un uomo divor\u00adzia da sua mog\u00adlie \u2013 a meno che non sia sta\u00adta infede\u00adle \u2013 la ren\u00adde adul\u00adte\u00adra. E chi spo\u00adsa una don\u00adna divor\u00adzia\u00adta com\u00admet\u00adte anche adul\u00adte\u00adrio\u00bb (Matteo 5:31\u201332 NLB<\/span>). Dio non si preoc\u00adcu\u00adpa di rego\u00adla\u00adre i divor\u00adzi in modo ragio\u00adne\u00advol\u00admen\u00adte equo attra\u00adver\u00adso nor\u00adme e rego\u00adla\u00admen\u00adti lega\u00adli, nem\u00admeno nel caso del matri\u00admo\u00adnio. Si trat\u00adta piut\u00adtosto di pro\u00admuo\u00adve\u00adre le vir\u00adt\u00f9 del\u00adl\u2019al\u00adle\u00adan\u00adza, come la fedel\u00adt\u00e0 e l\u2019a\u00admo\u00adre. Vuo\u00adle che la musi\u00adca di Dio ci plas\u00admi a tal pun\u00adto nel cuo\u00adre da ini\u00adzia\u00adre a vive\u00adre la nos\u00adt\u00adra vita auto\u00adma\u00adti\u00adca\u00admen\u00adte in sin\u00adto\u00adnia con la sua musica.
\nMatrimonio
\nIl prin\u00adci\u00adpio fon\u00adda\u00admen\u00adta\u00adle del\u00adl\u2019e\u00adbrais\u00admo \u00e8: il matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 sacro. Ci\u00f2 \u00e8 espres\u00adso per\u00adsi\u00adno nel nome del matri\u00admo\u00adnio: Kid\u00addus\u00adhin signi\u00adfi\u00adca san\u00adti\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne. In una ceri\u00admo\u00adnia nuzia\u00adle ebraica, quan\u00addo lo spo\u00adso infi\u00adla l\u2019a\u00adnel\u00adlo alla spo\u00adsa, tut\u00adta la fes\u00adta nuzia\u00adle gri\u00adda ad alta voce: \u00abMeku\u00adde\u00adschet, Meku\u00adde\u00adschet, Meku\u00adde\u00adschet! San\u00adti\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adto! Santificato!
\nSacro \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che appar\u00adtiene al sacro, a Dio. Per Dio, il matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 qual\u00adco\u00adsa di cos\u00ec gran\u00adde che ne ha fat\u00adto l\u2019im\u00adma\u00adgi\u00adne del suo amo\u00adre per noi esse\u00adri uma\u00adni: \u00abIo con\u00adtrag\u00adgo matri\u00admo\u00adnio con te per tut\u00adti i tem\u00adpi; il mio dono nuzia\u00adle per te \u00e8 il mio aiuto e la mia pro\u00adte\u00adzio\u00adne, il mio amo\u00adre, la mia miser\u00adi\u00adcor\u00addia e la mia immu\u00adta\u00adbi\u00adle fedel\u00adt\u00e0. Cono\u00adsce\u00adre\u00adte chi sono, io, il Signo\u00adre\u00bb (Osea 2:21f GNB<\/span>). Alcu\u00adni pens\u00ada\u00adno che il matri\u00admo\u00adnio sia un\u2019in\u00adven\u00adzio\u00adne di noi esse\u00adri uma\u00adni e che dipen\u00adda dal\u00adla cul\u00adtu\u00adra. Secon\u00addo la visio\u00adne bibli\u00adca del mon\u00addo, si trat\u00adta di un\u2019in\u00adven\u00adzio\u00adne ori\u00adgi\u00adna\u00adle del Crea\u00adto\u00adre, alla qua\u00adle appar\u00adten\u00adgo\u00adno gli aspet\u00adti giuri\u00addi\u00adci (matri\u00admo\u00adnio civi\u00adle) tan\u00adto quan\u00adto la sti\u00adpu\u00adla del\u00adl\u2019al\u00adle\u00adan\u00adza davan\u00adti a Dio.
\nGes\u00f9 dice: \u00abPer ques\u00adto l\u2019uo\u00admo las\u00adcer\u00e0 suo pad\u00adre e sua mad\u00adre e si unir\u00e0 a sua mog\u00adlie e i due div\u00aden\u00adter\u00adan\u00adno una sola car\u00adne\u00bb. Quin\u00addi non sono pi\u00f9 due, ma una sola car\u00adne. Ci\u00f2 che dun\u00adque Dio ha con\u00adgiunto, l\u2019uo\u00admo non lo sepa\u00adri!\u00bb. (Matteo 19:5f LUT<\/span>). In linea con l\u2019in\u00addis\u00adso\u00adlu\u00adbi\u00adle fedel\u00adt\u00e0 di Dio nei nos\u00adtri con\u00adfron\u00adti, anche noi dob\u00adbia\u00admo esse\u00adre fede\u00adli l\u2019u\u00adno all\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro nel\u00adl\u2019al\u00adle\u00adan\u00adza matri\u00admo\u00adnia\u00adle (cfr. Mala\u00adchia 2:16). John Ort\u00adberg: \u00abUna pro\u00admes\u00adsa di matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 una frase cos\u00ec com\u00admo\u00adven\u00adte, mera\u00advigli\u00adosa e spa\u00advent\u00ado\u00adsa per\u00adch\u00e9 si trat\u00adta di una pro\u00admes\u00adsa che dura tut\u00adta la vita. Si trat\u00adta di un\u2019al\u00adle\u00adan\u00adza. Un\u2019e\u00adco silen\u00adzio\u00adsa del voto di Dio sul suo amo\u00adre infi\u00adni\u00adto per noi\u00bb.
\nA vol\u00adte i coniugi il cui matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 diven\u00adta\u00adto com\u00adpli\u00adca\u00adto dico\u00adno: Non \u00e8 sta\u00adto Dio a met\u00adter\u00adci insie\u00adme, ma noi stes\u00adsi. Ma il pun\u00adto \u00e8 che il matri\u00admo\u00adnio stes\u00adso \u00e8 sacro e isti\u00adtui\u00adto da Dio. Dal momen\u00adto in cui io e Sil\u00advia ci sia\u00admo det\u00adti s\u00ec, abbia\u00admo capi\u00adto che era fini\u00adta, per\u00adch\u00e9 Dio ci ave\u00adva uniti. Ora non c\u2019\u00e8 pi\u00f9 modo di tornare indie\u00adtro. Il divor\u00adzio non \u00e8 un\u2019op\u00adzio\u00adne. I pro\u00adble\u00admi che sor\u00adgo\u00adno ora devo\u00adno esse\u00adre risol\u00adti o rovi\u00adner\u00adan\u00adno la nos\u00adt\u00adra unio\u00adne. Non c\u2019\u00e8 da stu\u00adpir\u00adsi se i dis\u00adce\u00adpo\u00adli dis\u00adse\u00adro a Ges\u00f9: \u00abAll\u00ado\u00adra sareb\u00adbe meglio non spo\u00adsar\u00adsi affat\u00adto!\u00bb. (Matteo 19:10 NLB<\/span>).
\nL\u2019i\u00addea roman\u00adti\u00adca che il matri\u00admo\u00adnio deb\u00adba esse\u00adre semp\u00adre diver\u00adten\u00adte, semp\u00adre feli\u00adce, gio\u00adva\u00adne e bel\u00adlo vie\u00adne da Hol\u00adly\u00adwood, ma non cor\u00adrispon\u00adde alla real\u00adt\u00e0. Anche il matri\u00admo\u00adnio a vol\u00adte \u00e8 un per\u00adcor\u00adso acci\u00adden\u00adta\u00adto. Se voglia\u00admo dura\u00adre, dob\u00adbia\u00admo per\u00addo\u00adna\u00adre anco\u00adra e anco\u00adra, esse\u00adre umi\u00adli, cede\u00adre, scen\u00adde\u00adre a com\u00adpro\u00admes\u00adsi. Alcu\u00adne cop\u00adpie non san\u00adno con cer\u00adtez\u00adza, pri\u00adma di per\u00adcor\u00adre\u00adre la nava\u00adta, se si trat\u00adta del part\u00adner che Dio ha dato loro. S\u00ec, lo so! \u00c8 una decis\u00adio\u00adne di invec\u00adchia\u00adre insie\u00adme con l\u2019ai\u00aduto di Dio. Anche se le sen\u00adsa\u00adzio\u00adni ini\u00adzia\u00adli di feli\u00adci\u00adt\u00e0 sva\u00adnis\u00adco\u00adno, biso\u00adgna sape\u00adre: La mia feli\u00adci\u00adt\u00e0 coniuga\u00adle attua\u00adle non \u00e8 importan\u00adte quan\u00adto lo svi\u00adlup\u00adpo a lungo ter\u00admi\u00adne del mio carat\u00adte\u00adre attra\u00adver\u00adso il matrimonio.
\nDivorzio
\nIl fat\u00adto che Ges\u00f9 par\u00adli del divor\u00adzio fa capi\u00adre che lo aspet\u00adta anche. Esis\u00adt\u00ade\u00adva tra il popo\u00adlo di Israe\u00adle, esis\u00adter\u00e0 anche tra i cris\u00adtia\u00adni. La Torah dice: \u00abSup\u00adpo\u00adnia\u00admo che un uomo spo\u00adsi una don\u00adna. In segui\u00adto non gli pia\u00adce pi\u00f9 per\u00adch\u00e9 tro\u00adva qual\u00adco\u00adsa di dis\u00adcu\u00adti\u00adbi\u00adle in lei. Le rila\u00adscia una let\u00adte\u00adra di divor\u00adzio, glie\u00adla con\u00adsegna e la man\u00adda via\u00bb (Deut. 24:1 NLB<\/span>). Il motivo del divor\u00adzio: Per\u00adch\u00e9 tro\u00adva qual\u00adco\u00adsa di dis\u00adcu\u00adti\u00adbi\u00adle in lei. Nella tra\u00addi\u00adzio\u00adne ebraica esis\u00adto\u00adno due diver\u00adse interpretazioni:<\/p>\n
\n\tLa Scuo\u00adla di Hil\u00adlel, inve\u00adce, dice: \u00e8 offen\u00adsi\u00advo anche quan\u00addo una don\u00adna bru\u00adcia un piat\u00adto o com\u00admet\u00adte il cri\u00admi\u00adne di invecchiare.<\/p>\n
\nGes\u00f9 cita un\u2019u\u00adni\u00adca clau\u00adso\u00adla che auto\u00adriz\u00adza l\u2019uo\u00admo a divor\u00adzia\u00adre dal\u00adla mog\u00adlie: \u00abSe non per for\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne\u00bb (Matteo 5:32 e 19:9 LUT<\/span>). Il tes\u00adto gre\u00adco dice por\u00adneia. Che ques\u00adto ter\u00admi\u00adne non pos\u00adsa esse\u00adre equi\u00adpa\u00adra\u00adto all\u2019a\u00addul\u00adte\u00adrio \u00e8 dimostra\u00adto dal fat\u00adto che Ges\u00f9 dice: \u00abDal cuo\u00adre esco\u00adno pen\u00adsie\u00adri cat\u00adti\u00advi, come l\u2019o\u00admic\u00adi\u00addio, l\u2019a\u00addul\u00adte\u00adrio, la for\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne [\u2026]\u00bb. (Matteo 15:19 NLB<\/span>). L\u2019a\u00addul\u00adte\u00adrio era pi\u00f9 che un motivo di divor\u00adzio nel giu\u00adda\u00adis\u00admo di quel tem\u00adpo, le adul\u00adte\u00adre veni\u00adva\u00adno lapi\u00adda\u00adte. Che cosa signi\u00adfi\u00adca por\u00adneia? Nel con\u00adtes\u00adto gene\u00adra\u00adle del Nuo\u00advo Tes\u00adta\u00admen\u00adto, si tro\u00adva\u00adno tre signi\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adti: Uno sti\u00adle di vita dis\u00adso\u00adlu\u00adto in gene\u00adra\u00adle, l\u2019ido\u00adla\u00adtria (imbro\u00adglio in sen\u00adso spi\u00adri\u00adtua\u00adle) e il ses\u00adso fuo\u00adri dal matrimonio.
\nIl divor\u00adzio non \u00e8 obbli\u00adga\u00adto\u00adrio in caso di tra\u00addi\u00admen\u00adto spi\u00adri\u00adtua\u00adle o ses\u00adsua\u00adle. Se il coniuge tra\u00addis\u00adce, la situa\u00adzio\u00adne \u00e8 tra\u00adgi\u00adca, ma non dispe\u00adra\u00adta. Il per\u00addo\u00adno e il ripris\u00adti\u00adno di una rela\u00adzio\u00adne sono pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli, ma la stra\u00adda \u00e8 lun\u00adga. Se ave\u00adte rot\u00adto il matri\u00admo\u00adnio, non pote\u00adte aspet\u00adtar\u00advi che l\u2019al\u00adtra per\u00adso\u00adna vi per\u00addo\u00adni e vi ami di nuo\u00advo. La ricon\u00adci\u00adlia\u00adzio\u00adne ha una pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 solo con la com\u00adple\u00adta com\u00adpren\u00adsio\u00adne e la rot\u00adtu\u00adra radi\u00adcale di una rela\u00adzio\u00adne estra\u00adnea. Il per\u00addo\u00adno non \u00e8 uno zer\u00adbi\u00adno su cui ci si pulis\u00adce le scar\u00adpe e poi si tor\u00adna nella spor\u00adci\u00adzia. Per i bam\u00adbi\u00adni \u00e8 una rot\u00adtu\u00adra enor\u00adme quan\u00addo un geni\u00adto\u00adre tra\u00addis\u00adce. In ogni caso, se vole\u00adte esse\u00adre un buon geni\u00adto\u00adre, occu\u00adp\u00ada\u00adtevi pi\u00f9 del vos\u00adtro coniuge che del vos\u00adtro figlio. Vole\u00adte dimostra\u00adre il vos\u00adtro amo\u00adre a vos\u00adtro figlio? Ama\u00adte il vos\u00adtro coniuge! Quan\u00addo i bam\u00adbi\u00adni vedo\u00adno il pap\u00e0 e la mam\u00adma insie\u00adme, dan\u00adno loro sicu\u00adrez\u00adza e fidu\u00adcia, che sono le miglio\u00adri aggi\u00adunte sul\u00adla stra\u00adda di una per\u00adso\u00adna\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 sana.
\nQuin\u00addi nel\u00adl\u2019An\u00adti\u00adco Tes\u00adta\u00admen\u00adto non c\u2019era alcun legame tra adul\u00adte\u00adrio e divor\u00adzio. Cosa ren\u00adde\u00adva all\u00ado\u00adra legit\u00adti\u00admo il divor\u00adzio? Non lo sap\u00adpia\u00admo. Ges\u00f9 dice: \u00abMos\u00e8 ha per\u00admes\u00adso il divor\u00adzio per\u00adch\u00e9 i vos\u00adtri cuo\u00adri sono duri, ma in ori\u00adgi\u00adne non era volon\u00adt\u00e0 di Dio\u00bb (Matteo 19:8 NLB<\/span>). Nel matri\u00admo\u00adnio c\u2019\u00e8 un\u2019al\u00adle\u00adan\u00adza indis\u00adso\u00adlu\u00adbi\u00adle che dura tut\u00adta la vita e, a vol\u00adte, cuo\u00adri duri. Pur\u00adtrop\u00adpo, a vol\u00adte sono cos\u00ec dif\u00adfi\u00adci\u00adli che il divor\u00adzio \u00e8 la solu\u00adzi\u00ado\u00adne miglio\u00adre. I cuo\u00adri duri si mani\u00adfest\u00ada\u00adno con la man\u00adcan\u00adza di volon\u00adt\u00e0 di cede\u00adre o di per\u00addo\u00adna\u00adre l\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro. Un cuo\u00adre duro pu\u00f2 esse\u00adre cos\u00ec bru\u00adta\u00adle. Non solo fisi\u00adca\u00admen\u00adte. A vol\u00adte lo str\u00adan\u00adgo\u00adla\u00admen\u00adto emo\u00adtivo e psi\u00adco\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adco del\u00adl\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro \u00e8 anco\u00adra peg\u00adgio\u00adre. Il divor\u00adzio \u00e8 un ordi\u00adne di emer\u00adgen\u00adza di Dio, una dis\u00adtor\u00adsio\u00adne del\u00adl\u2019al\u00adle\u00adan\u00adza. \u00c8 per sal\u00adva\u00adre la vita dis\u00ador\u00addi\u00adna\u00adta da un male anco\u00adra pi\u00f9 grande.
\nLet\u00adte\u00adra di divorzio
\nGes\u00f9 si rife\u00adris\u00adce all\u2019isti\u00adtu\u00adzi\u00ado\u00adne del\u00adla let\u00adte\u00adra di divor\u00adzio in ques\u00adto pass\u00adag\u00adgio. Ques\u00adta let\u00adte\u00adra non era una let\u00adte\u00adra gra\u00adtui\u00adta, ma una let\u00adte\u00adra di pro\u00adte\u00adzio\u00adne. Ave\u00adva una com\u00adpo\u00adnen\u00adte pro\u00adfi\u00adlat\u00adti\u00adca e una com\u00adpo\u00adnen\u00adte assistenziale.
\nLa let\u00adte\u00adra di divor\u00adzio impe\u00addi\u00adva a un uomo di licen\u00adzia\u00adre la mog\u00adlie con leg\u00adge\u00adrez\u00adza e arbi\u00adtra\u00adri\u00ade\u00adt\u00e0. In una vera e pro\u00adpria udi\u00aden\u00adza, il caso \u00e8 sta\u00adto dis\u00adcus\u00adso e le moti\u00adva\u00adzio\u00adni sono sta\u00adte esami\u00adna\u00adte. Ges\u00f9 ci insegna una poli\u00adti\u00adca di divor\u00adzio pi\u00f9 restrit\u00adti\u00adva ris\u00adpet\u00adto alla posi\u00adzio\u00adne libe\u00adra\u00adle di Rab\u00adbi Hil\u00adlel, influ\u00aden\u00adte nel giu\u00adda\u00adis\u00admo del\u00adl\u2019epo\u00adca. Ci sfi\u00adda anco\u00adra di pi\u00f9 a inves\u00adti\u00adre mol\u00adto nel matri\u00admo\u00adnio e a lot\u00adta\u00adre per esso. Una cop\u00adpia, in occa\u00adsio\u00adne del loro anni\u00adver\u00adsa\u00adrio di matri\u00admo\u00adnio di fer\u00adro, alla doman\u00adda su come abbia\u00adno fat\u00adto a resis\u00adte\u00adre cos\u00ec a lungo insie\u00adme, ha ris\u00adpos\u00adto: \u00abSia\u00admo nati in un\u2019epo\u00adca in cui si aggi\u00adu\u00adstava\u00adno le cose rot\u00adte inve\u00adce di but\u00adtar\u00adle via\u00bb. Mi capi\u00adta spes\u00adso di sen\u00adti\u00adre cop\u00adpie che han\u00adno attra\u00adver\u00adsa\u00adto gra\u00advi cri\u00adsi, ma che han\u00adno ritro\u00adva\u00adto la loro stra\u00adda gra\u00adzie a un aiuto ester\u00adno. Ques\u00adto non dov\u00adreb\u00adbe acca\u00adde\u00adre solo quan\u00addo il dado del\u00adla fine del matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 gi\u00e0 sta\u00adto lan\u00adcia\u00adto nel pro\u00adfon\u00addo del cuo\u00adre. Come see\u00adtal chi\u00adle voglia\u00admo offri\u00adre aiuto attra\u00adver\u00adso cor\u00adsi e accom\u00adpag\u00adna\u00admen\u00adto per\u00adso\u00adna\u00adle. E, cosa mol\u00adto importan\u00adte, voglia\u00admo sos\u00adtener\u00advi nel cono\u00adsce\u00adre meglio Ges\u00f9. Solo Lui pu\u00f2 insegnar\u00advi ad amare.
\nMa la let\u00adte\u00adra di divor\u00adzio ser\u00advi\u00adva anche a pro\u00adt\u00adeg\u00adge\u00adre la don\u00adna divor\u00adzia\u00adta, che non era con\u00adside\u00adra\u00adta un ber\u00adsaglio faci\u00adle. Dio \u00e8 semp\u00adre dal\u00adla par\u00adte dei debo\u00adli e dei tras\u00adcu\u00adra\u00adti, quin\u00addi anche dopo il divor\u00adzio il mari\u00adto era obbli\u00adga\u00adto a con\u00adti\u00adnu\u00adare a man\u00adte\u00adnere la mog\u00adlie. Mi sta mol\u00adto a cuo\u00adre che soprat\u00adtut\u00adto le per\u00adso\u00adne in fase di divor\u00adzio o dopo un divor\u00adzio spe\u00adri\u00admen\u00adti\u00adno la digni\u00adt\u00e0 e l\u2019apprezzamen\u00adto del see\u00adtal chi\u00adle. Cari divor\u00adzia\u00adti: Non sie\u00adte per\u00adso\u00adne fal\u00adli\u00adte solo per\u00adch\u00e9 il vos\u00adtro matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 fal\u00adli\u00adto. Anche se i matri\u00admo\u00adni e le fami\u00adg\u00adlie non posso\u00adno esse\u00adre sem\u00adpli\u00adce\u00admen\u00adte restau\u00adra\u00adti, \u00e8 pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adle spe\u00adri\u00admen\u00adta\u00adre il per\u00addo\u00adno e la gua\u00adri\u00adgio\u00adne. Il per\u00addo\u00adno include semp\u00adre la pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 di un nuo\u00advo inizio.
\nUn\u2019os\u00adser\u00adva\u00adzio\u00adne inter\u00ades\u00adsan\u00adte si tro\u00adva in Gere\u00admia 3:8. Seb\u00adbe\u00adne Dio voglia un rap\u00adpor\u00adto matri\u00admo\u00adnia\u00adle che duri tut\u00adta la vita, rila\u00adscia a Israe\u00adle un cer\u00adti\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adto di divor\u00adzio per adul\u00adte\u00adrio e lo man\u00adda via. Anche Ges\u00f9 pre\u00adsup\u00adpo\u00adne che il divor\u00adzio esis\u00adta, altri\u00admen\u00adti non ne par\u00adler\u00adeb\u00adbe. \u00c8 semp\u00adre da inten\u00adder\u00adsi come un ordi\u00adne di emer\u00adgen\u00adza e non come l\u2019in\u00adten\u00adzio\u00adne ori\u00adgi\u00adna\u00adle di Dio.
\nChe ne \u00e8 all\u00ado\u00adra del ris\u00adpo\u00adsar\u00adsi? \u00abMa io vi dico che chi\u00adunque abban\u00addo\u00adna la pro\u00adpria mog\u00adlie, se non per for\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne, e ne spo\u00adsa un\u2019al\u00adtra, com\u00admet\u00adte adul\u00adte\u00adrio; e chi\u00adunque spo\u00adsa una che \u00e8 sta\u00adta abban\u00addo\u00adna\u00adta, com\u00admet\u00adte adul\u00adte\u00adrio\u00bb (Matteo 19:9 ELB<\/span>). Ques\u00adto pas\u00adso dice che chi divor\u00adzia sen\u00adza giu\u00adsti\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne \u00e8 in real\u00adt\u00e0 anco\u00adra spo\u00adsa\u00adto con l\u2019ex part\u00adner. In ques\u00adto caso, ris\u00adpo\u00adsar\u00adsi \u00e8 adul\u00adte\u00adrio, ma non per\u00adch\u00e9 il matri\u00admo\u00adnio sareb\u00adbe indis\u00adso\u00adlu\u00adbi\u00adle, bens\u00ec per\u00adch\u00e9 si \u00e8 anco\u00adra spo\u00adsa\u00adti. La gra\u00adzia e il per\u00addo\u00adno di Dio sono al di sopra del\u00adle rela\u00adzio\u00adni inter\u00adrot\u00adte. Esis\u00adte il per\u00addo\u00adno anche per le per\u00adso\u00adne il cui matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 fal\u00adli\u00adto. Per\u00adde\u00adre una rela\u00adzio\u00adne \u00e8 dolo\u00adro\u00adso. Ma anco\u00adra peg\u00adgio: per\u00adde\u00adre se stes\u00adsi a cau\u00adsa di una relazione.
\n\u00abIl matri\u00admo\u00adnio: un\u2019in\u00adven\u00adzio\u00adne assur\u00adda che pu\u00f2 esis\u00adte\u00adre solo per l\u2019in\u00adfi\u00adni\u00adta gra\u00adzia di Dio\u00bb (Gabri\u00adel Gar\u00adcia Mar\u00adquez). Per\u00adch\u00e9 Ges\u00f9 strin\u00adge le mag\u00adlie del divor\u00adzio e del nuo\u00advo matri\u00admo\u00adnio ris\u00adpet\u00adto a Mos\u00e8? Per\u00adch\u00e9 ci aiu\u00adta. \u00c8 lui il fede\u00adle. Con il suo aiuto e la sua gra\u00adzia, la sua fedel\u00adt\u00e0 pu\u00f2 diven\u00adta\u00adre la nos\u00adt\u00adra vir\u00adt\u00f9. Tut\u00adto il male, com\u00adpre\u00adsi for\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne e adul\u00adte\u00adrio, vie\u00adne dal cuo\u00adre. Davi\u00adde pre\u00adg\u00f2: \u00abDio, crea in me un cuo\u00adre puli\u00adto e dam\u00admi uno spi\u00adri\u00adto nuo\u00advo e ret\u00adto\u00bb (Sal\u00admo 51:12 NLB<\/span>). Attra\u00adver\u00adso la meta\u00admor\u00adfo\u00adsi, il cuo\u00adre duro si tras\u00adfor\u00adma in un cuo\u00adre nuo\u00advo. Ques\u00adto apre pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 com\u00adple\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte nuo\u00adve e una nuo\u00adva responsa\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0. Lascia\u00adte\u00advi cam\u00adbia\u00adre da Ges\u00f9 e bal\u00adla\u00adte la sua musica!
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\nPos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli doman\u00adde per i pic\u00adco\u00adli gruppi
\nLeg\u00adge\u00adre il tes\u00adto del\u00adla Bibbia: Matteo 5:31\u201332; 19:3\u201310<\/p>\n
\n\tCosa signi\u00adfi\u00adca ques\u00adto per l\u2019a\u00admo\u00adre di Dio per noi umani?
\n\tQua\u00adli moti\u00advi legit\u00adti\u00adma\u00adno il divorzio?
\n\tQual \u00e8 il pro\u00adble\u00adma del risposarsi?
\n\tCome potrem\u00admo raf\u00adforz\u00ada\u00adre i matri\u00admo\u00adni nel con\u00adtes\u00adto del see\u00adtal chile?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"