Som\u00adma\u00adrio: Mol\u00adti cris\u00adtia\u00adni han\u00adno sen\u00adti\u00adto cen\u00adti\u00adna\u00adia di ser\u00admo\u00adni, ma sono stu\u00adpi\u00adti ed ecci\u00adta\u00adti quan\u00addo impa\u00adra\u00adno mol\u00adto su se stes\u00adsi, sul\u00adla buo\u00adna comu\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne e sul\u00adla ges\u00adtio\u00adne dei con\u00adflit\u00adti in un semi\u00adna\u00adrio per il per\u00adso\u00adna\u00adle azi\u00adend\u00ada\u00adle. Eppu\u00adre la Bibbia ha mol\u00adto da dire che \u00e8 adat\u00adto alla vita quo\u00adti\u00addia\u00adna. Ques\u00adto ser\u00admo\u00adne met\u00adte in rela\u00adzio\u00adne i tes\u00adti bibli\u00adci con gli argo\u00admen\u00adti menzionati.<\/p>\n
Una vol\u00adta una don\u00adna ave\u00adva spar\u00adso voci sui suoi vici\u00adni e li ave\u00adva calun\u00adnia\u00adti. Ques\u00adto ha cau\u00adsa\u00adto mol\u00adti dan\u00adni. Mol\u00adto tem\u00adpo dopo si pen\u00adt\u00ec e chie\u00adse per\u00addo\u00adno al suo vici\u00adno. La per\u00addon\u00f2 volen\u00adtie\u00adri, ma le chie\u00adse un favore: \u00abVai a casa, macel\u00adla un pol\u00adlo e strap\u00adpagli tut\u00adte le piume, anche le pi\u00f9 pic\u00adco\u00adle, mett\u00adi\u00adle in un ces\u00adto e poi cammi\u00adna len\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte per il villag\u00adgio, spar\u00adgen\u00addo un po\u00bb di piume ogni tre pas\u00adsi. Poi sali\u00adte sul cam\u00adpa\u00adni\u00adle del\u00adla chie\u00adsa e ver\u00adsa\u00adte il res\u00adto da las\u00ads\u00f9. All\u00ado\u00adra tor\u00adna da me!\u00bb. La don\u00adna fece come le era sta\u00adto det\u00adto. \u00abBene\u00bb, dis\u00adse gen\u00adtilm\u00aden\u00adte il vici\u00adno, \u00abora anda\u00adte per le stra\u00adde e rac\u00adco\u00adglie\u00adte tut\u00adte le piume che sono sta\u00adte spar\u00adse\u00bb. La don\u00adna si stup\u00ec e dis\u00adse: \u00abMa \u00e8 impos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adle! Il ven\u00adto li ha disper\u00adsi in tut\u00adte le dire\u00adzio\u00adni\u00bb. Leg\u00adge\u00adre come una piuma le nost\u00adre chi\u00adac\u00adchie\u00adre si dif\u00adfon\u00addo\u00adno. Quan\u00adta vita di vici\u00adna\u00adto e di vera comu\u00adni\u00adt\u00e0 vie\u00adne dis\u00adtrut\u00adta per\u00adch\u00e9 par\u00adte\u00adci\u00adpia\u00admo ai pet\u00adte\u00adgo\u00adlez\u00adzi sug\u00adli altri. Abbat\u00adte\u00adre gli altri fa sem\u00adbra\u00adre che noi stes\u00adsi cre\u00adscia\u00admo. Parl\u00ada\u00adre \u00e8 un \u00abpro\u00adces\u00adso di pro\u00adcrea\u00adzio\u00adne\u00bb che pu\u00f2 esse\u00adre vivi\u00adfi\u00adcan\u00adte o dis\u00adtrut\u00adtivo, che pu\u00f2 far\u00adci cre\u00adsce\u00adre o man\u00adte\u00adner\u00adci pic\u00adco\u00adli. \u00abChi ama parl\u00ada\u00adre deve sop\u00adport\u00adar\u00adne le con\u00adse\u00adguen\u00adze, per\u00adch\u00e9 la lin\u00adgua pu\u00f2 ucci\u00adde\u00adre o dare la vita\u00bb (Pro\u00adver\u00adbi 18:21 NLB<\/span>). Spe\u00adro che nessuna piuma appun\u00adti\u00adta ven\u00adga fat\u00adta vola\u00adre in pae\u00adse nel nos\u00adtro paese! \tFino a che pun\u00adto la ges\u00adtio\u00adne del\u00adle rela\u00adzio\u00adni pu\u00f2 esse\u00adre una pro\u00adfi\u00adlas\u00adsi del\u00adle crisi? Rias\u00adsun\u00adto: Mol\u00adti cris\u00adtia\u00adni han\u00adno ascolt\u00ada\u00adto cen\u00adti\u00adna\u00adia di ser\u00admo\u00adni, ma riman\u00adgo\u00adno stu\u00adpi\u00adti ed emo\u00adzio\u00adna\u00adti quan\u00addo impa\u00adra\u00adno mol\u00adto su se stes\u00adsi, sul\u00adla buo\u00adna comu\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne e sul\u00adla ges\u00adtio\u00adne dei con\u00adflit\u00adti in un semi\u00adna\u00adrio azi\u00adend\u00ada\u00adle per il per\u00adso\u00adna\u00adle. Eppu\u00adre la Bibbia ha mol\u00adto da dire che si adat\u00adta alla vita di tut\u00adti i gior\u00adni. Ques\u00adto ser\u00admo\u00adne met\u00adte in rela\u00adzio\u00adne i tes\u00adti bibli\u00adci con gli argo\u00admen\u00adti cita\u00adti. Una vol\u00adta una don\u00adna si \u00e8 lamen\u00adta\u00adta dei suoi vicini.\u2026<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","wpfc_preacher":[23],"wpfc_sermon_series":[72],"wpfc_sermon_topics":[],"wpfc_bible_book":[],"wpfc_service_type":[12],"class_list":{"0":"wpfc_preacher-matthias-altwegg","1":"wpfc_sermon_series-metamorphose","2":"wpfc-sermon-single","3":"post-3463","4":"wpfc_sermon","5":"type-wpfc_sermon","6":"status-publish","7":"hentry","10":"wpfc_service_type-gottesdienst"},"acf":[],"sermons_blog_filters_topics":"\t\t\t\t
\nA vol\u00adte le azi\u00aden\u00adde off\u00adro\u00adno semi\u00adna\u00adri sul\u00adla comu\u00adni\u00adca\u00adzio\u00adne e sul\u00adla ges\u00adtio\u00adne dei con\u00adflit\u00adti. In segui\u00adto, le per\u00adso\u00adne par\u00adla\u00adno con entus\u00adi\u00adas\u00admo dei nuo\u00advi oriz\u00adzon\u00adti che si sono aper\u00adti. Tra loro ci sono anche per\u00adso\u00adne che han\u00adno gi\u00e0 ascolt\u00ada\u00adto cen\u00adti\u00adna\u00adia di ser\u00admo\u00adni. Nella Bibbia si tro\u00adva\u00adno mol\u00adti aiuti rile\u00advan\u00adti e sag\u00adgi per la vita, soprat\u00adtut\u00adto su ques\u00adto tema. \u00c8 nos\u00adtro com\u00adpi\u00adto met\u00adte\u00adre in rela\u00adzio\u00adne ques\u00adti tes\u00adti con la real\u00adt\u00e0 del\u00adla nos\u00adt\u00adra vita. Cosa dice la Bibbia sul\u00adl\u2019in\u00adte\u00adr\u00adazio\u00adne utile?
\nDiscorso\u2026
\n\u00abPer\u00adci\u00f2, toglie\u00adte la men\u00adzo\u00adgna [la fal\u00adsi\u00adt\u00e0, la non ver\u00adi\u00addi\u00adci\u00adt\u00e0] e dite la veri\u00adt\u00e0, cias\u00adcu\u00adno con il suo prossi\u00admo. Sia\u00admo infat\u00adti mem\u00adbra gli uni degli altri\u00bb (Efe\u00adsi\u00adni 4:25 ELB<\/span>).
\nLascia\u00adte da par\u00adte i fal\u00adsi e i men\u00adzo\u00adgne\u00adri e dite la veri\u00adt\u00e0! Ci\u00f2 signi\u00adfi\u00adca: non ingan\u00adna\u00adre se stes\u00adsi e l\u2019al\u00adtra per\u00adso\u00adna. Se le paro\u00adle o il com\u00adpor\u00adta\u00admen\u00adto di qual\u00adcu\u00adno vi han\u00adno feri\u00adto o tur\u00adba\u00adto, non pas\u00adsa\u00adte\u00adci sopra. Non fate fin\u00adta che l\u2019in\u00adte\u00adra fac\u00adcen\u00adda non vi abbia dis\u00adtur\u00adba\u00adto e non sten\u00addete su di essa una cap\u00adpa d\u2019a\u00admo\u00adre. Nella mag\u00adgi\u00ador par\u00adte dei casi non si trat\u00adta di un man\u00adtel\u00adlo d\u2019a\u00admo\u00adre, ma piut\u00adtosto di un man\u00adtel\u00adlo per evi\u00adt\u00adare i con\u00adflit\u00adti. Inolt\u00adre, dire la veri\u00adt\u00e0 signi\u00adfi\u00adca: Non fate di una mon\u00adtagna un muc\u00adchio di mole, non inven\u00adta\u00adte nulla e non inter\u00adpre\u00adta\u00adte cose che sono sta\u00adte det\u00adte o fat\u00adte in un modo che non \u00e8 mai acca\u00addu\u00adto. Ma soprat\u00adtut\u00adto: par\u00adla\u00adte! Non tenete le cose den\u00adtro di voi, non chiude\u00adte\u00advi in voi stes\u00adsi e non bar\u00adri\u00adca\u00adte\u00advi die\u00adtro un muro di silen\u00adzio e di negazione.
\nPer\u00adch\u00e9? Per\u00adch\u00e9 sia\u00admo lega\u00adti gli uni agli altri come mem\u00adbri di un uni\u00adco cor\u00adpo. Qual\u00adsi\u00ada\u00adsi fal\u00adsi\u00adt\u00e0 che seguia\u00admo o dif\u00adfon\u00addia\u00admo, ma anche il fat\u00adto di non parl\u00ada\u00adre e di \u00abritir\u00adar\u00adsi\u00bb, dann\u00adeg\u00adgia ques\u00adta con\u00adne\u00ads\u00adsio\u00adne. E poi c\u2019\u00e8 il per\u00adi\u00adco\u00adlo che il dia\u00advo\u00adlo usi ques\u00adto luo\u00adgo sot\u00adti\u00adle per dis\u00adtrug\u00adge\u00adre la comu\u00adni\u00adt\u00e0. Il mio com\u00adpor\u00adta\u00admen\u00adto nei con\u00adfron\u00adti degli altri si riper\u00adcuo\u00adte sul\u00adl\u2019in\u00adte\u00adra comu\u00adni\u00adt\u00e0. Pur\u00adtrop\u00adpo ques\u00adta com\u00adpren\u00adsio\u00adne \u00e8 anda\u00adta per\u00adsa nel cor\u00adso del\u00adl\u2019\u00adin\u00addi\u00advi\u00addua\u00adliz\u00adza\u00adzio\u00adne. Sia\u00admo mem\u00adbri di un uni\u00adco cor\u00adpo e sia\u00admo lega\u00adti insie\u00adme nel bene e nel male. Per\u00adtan\u00adto, i pro\u00adble\u00admi inter\u00adper\u00adso\u00adna\u00adli non sono solo ques\u00adtio\u00adni private.
\nSe voglia\u00admo pre\u00adve\u00adni\u00adre i con\u00adflit\u00adti, dob\u00adbia\u00admo inves\u00adti\u00adre nel\u00adle rela\u00adzio\u00adni. Se vivia\u00admo in buo\u00adne rela\u00adzio\u00adni sta\u00adbi\u00adli, pos\u00adsia\u00admo sop\u00adport\u00adare situa\u00adzio\u00adni di stress e qual\u00adche con\u00adtro\u00adver\u00adsia con l\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro sen\u00adza che ques\u00adto ci por\u00adti fuo\u00adri stra\u00adda. Per ques\u00adto Pao\u00adlo non solo pre\u00addi\u00adca\u00adva, ma con\u00addi\u00advi\u00adde\u00adva la vita. \u00abVi abbia\u00admo ama\u00adto cos\u00ec tan\u00adto che non solo vi abbia\u00admo por\u00adtato la buo\u00adna novel\u00adla di Dio, ma abbia\u00admo anche con\u00addi\u00advi\u00adso con voi la nos\u00adt\u00adra stes\u00adsa vita\u00bb (1Tessalonicesi 2:8 NLB<\/span>). Soprat\u00adtut\u00adto in una chie\u00adsa come la nos\u00adt\u00adra, \u00e8 cos\u00ec importan\u00adte che sap\u00adpia\u00admo qual\u00adco\u00adsa di pi\u00f9 l\u2019u\u00adno del\u00adl\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro che non solo il nome e la pro\u00adfes\u00adsio\u00adne. Se sia\u00admo con\u00ads\u00adape\u00advo\u00adli dei crol\u00adli del\u00adla nos\u00adt\u00adra bio\u00adgra\u00adfia, del\u00adlo stress sul lavoro o dei liti\u00adgi nel nos\u00adtro matri\u00admo\u00adnio, ci capia\u00admo meglio e pos\u00adsia\u00admo clas\u00adsi\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adre i com\u00adpor\u00adta\u00admen\u00adti in modo diverso.
\n\u2026anco\u00adra oggi
\nUna fine\u00ads\u00adtra tem\u00adpo\u00adra\u00adle per ques\u00adto pro\u00adces\u00adso di chia\u00adri\u00admen\u00adto \u00e8 for\u00adni\u00adta dirett\u00adamen\u00adte qui: Dob\u00adbia\u00admo chia\u00adri\u00adre le cose nel\u00adlo stes\u00adso gior\u00adno: \u00abNon pec\u00adca\u00adre quan\u00addo sei arrab\u00adbia\u00adto e non lascia\u00adre che il sole tra\u00admon\u00adti sul\u00adla tua ira\u00bb. Non date al dia\u00advo\u00adlo l\u2019op\u00adpor\u00adtu\u00adni\u00adt\u00e0 di acqui\u00adsi\u00adre pote\u00adre su di voi attra\u00adver\u00adso la rab\u00adbia!\u00bb. (Efe\u00adsi\u00adni 4:26f NLB<\/span>). Non lascia\u00adte che nulla vada spre\u00adca\u00adto. Pi\u00f9 a lungo riman\u00addia\u00admo la dis\u00adcus\u00adsio\u00adne, mag\u00adgio\u00adre \u00e8 il per\u00adi\u00adco\u00adlo che ques\u00adto sen\u00adti\u00admen\u00adto ini\u00adzi\u00adal\u00admen\u00adte neu\u00adtro di rab\u00adbia o di fas\u00adtidio ci indu\u00adca a com\u00adpie\u00adre azio\u00adni e pen\u00adsie\u00adri pec\u00adca\u00admi\u00adno\u00adsi, in modo che il dia\u00advo\u00adlo met\u00adta un pie\u00adde nella por\u00adta. So da me che non parl\u00ada\u00adre spes\u00adso mi por\u00adta a fare le cose semp\u00adre pi\u00f9 in gran\u00adde nel mio inti\u00admo. Ci\u00f2 che l\u2019al\u00adtra per\u00adso\u00adna pu\u00f2 aver det\u00adto o fat\u00adto sen\u00adza pens\u00adar\u00adci e sen\u00adza voler\u00adlo, vie\u00adne inter\u00adpre\u00adta\u00adto da me esat\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte nel\u00adlo stes\u00adso modo. \u00abVuo\u00adle dir\u00admi\u2026\u00bb. \u00abSa esat\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte\u2026\u00bb \u00abL\u2019ha fat\u00adto di nuo\u00advo, lo sta facen\u00addo di pro\u00adpo\u00adsi\u00adto\u2026\u00bb ecc. Dopo ques\u00adti pen\u00adsie\u00adri, il dia\u00advo\u00adlo non solo ha un pie\u00adde nella por\u00adta, ma in real\u00adt\u00e0 si \u00e8 gi\u00e0 mes\u00adso a casa con me.
\nUn\u2019al\u00adtra por\u00adta per il dia\u00advo\u00adlo \u00e8 parl\u00ada\u00adre con altri del\u00adla situa\u00adzio\u00adne, cosa che dov\u00adres\u00adte evi\u00adt\u00adare a tut\u00adti i cos\u00adti. Il con\u00adflit\u00adto che ave\u00adte con un\u2019al\u00adtra per\u00adso\u00adna \u00e8 tra voi e quella per\u00adso\u00adna. Le ter\u00adze, quar\u00adte o addi\u00adrit\u00adtu\u00adra quin\u00adte par\u00adti non han\u00adno nulla a che fare con ques\u00adto con\u00adflit\u00adto. Se per\u00f2 coin\u00advol\u00adgi\u00ada\u00admo gli altri nella ques\u00adtio\u00adne, ques\u00adti saran\u00adno con\u00adta\u00adgia\u00adti dal\u00adla vos\u00adtra rab\u00adbia e ini\u00adzier\u00adan\u00adno a svi\u00adluppa\u00adre avver\u00adsio\u00adni nei con\u00adfron\u00adti del\u00adla per\u00adso\u00adna in ques\u00adtio\u00adne. Come un can\u00adcro, si for\u00adma\u00adno ora metasta\u00adsi che col\u00adpis\u00adco\u00adno altri arti, in modo che tut\u00adto il cor\u00adpo si amma\u00adli \u2013 in modo terminale.
\nLa mia espe\u00adri\u00aden\u00adza con i con\u00adflit\u00adti nella con\u00adgre\u00adga\u00adzio\u00adne \u00e8 che quan\u00addo final\u00admen\u00adte ven\u00adgo\u00adno alla luce, spes\u00adso han\u00adno una sto\u00adria che risa\u00adle a mesi, for\u00adse anche anni fa. Spes\u00adso all\u2019i\u00adni\u00adzio si \u00e8 trat\u00adta\u00adto solo di un\u2019os\u00adser\u00adva\u00adzio\u00adne scon\u00adside\u00adra\u00adta o di un com\u00adpor\u00adta\u00admen\u00adto poco pon\u00adde\u00adra\u00adto. Pre\u00adsu\u00admi\u00adbilm\u00aden\u00adte, il pic\u00adco\u00adlo dis\u00adtur\u00adbo avreb\u00adbe potu\u00adto esse\u00adre risol\u00adto abbastan\u00adza facilm\u00aden\u00adte \u2013 se si fos\u00adse deciso gi\u00e0 a ques\u00adto pun\u00adto di segui\u00adre il con\u00adsiglio del\u00adla Bibbia, di chia\u00adri\u00adre le cose one\u00ads\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte e soprat\u00adtut\u00adto rapi\u00adda\u00admen\u00adte con la per\u00adso\u00adna inter\u00ades\u00adsa\u00adta e quin\u00addi di non dare spa\u00adzio al diavolo.
\nRac\u00adco\u00adglie\u00adre e perdonare
\nVenia\u00admo da un\u2019epo\u00adca \u2013 e ques\u00adto \u00e8 par\u00adti\u00adco\u00adlar\u00admen\u00adte vero per la gene\u00adra\u00adzio\u00adne degli ultra set\u00adtan\u00adten\u00adni \u2013 in cui le per\u00adso\u00adne erano pre\u00adva\u00adlen\u00adte\u00admen\u00adte sot\u00adto\u00admes\u00adse. Era un\u2019epo\u00adca in cui si trat\u00adta\u00adva di sot\u00adto\u00admis\u00adsio\u00adne e obbe\u00addien\u00adza: ai geni\u00adto\u00adri, al supe\u00adrio\u00adre, all\u2019in\u00adsegnan\u00adte, agli anzia\u00adni del\u00adla con\u00adgre\u00adga\u00adzio\u00adne o al pas\u00adto\u00adre. Da quel\u00adl\u2019epo\u00adca deri\u00adva il det\u00adto: \u00abI bam\u00adbi\u00adni che vogli\u00ado\u00adno qual\u00adco\u00adsa, se la pren\u00addo\u00adno con la tes\u00adta!\u00bb. Ovvero: non devi vole\u00adre nulla, devi fare quello che ti vie\u00adne det\u00adto! Biso\u00adgna obbed\u00adire, sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adter\u00adsi e sottomettersi.
\nNel frat\u00adtem\u00adpo, sia\u00admo sta\u00adti edu\u00adca\u00adti a esse\u00adre cri\u00adti\u00adci e ad ave\u00adre la nos\u00adt\u00adra opi\u00adni\u00adone. A fron\u00adte di tut\u00adti gli svi\u00adlup\u00adpi posi\u00adti\u00advi, oggi ten\u00addia\u00admo a cade\u00adre da cavallo sul\u00adl\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro vers\u00adan\u00adte: la capa\u00adci\u00adt\u00e0 di sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adter\u00adsi e sop\u00adport\u00adare una situa\u00adzio\u00adne dif\u00adfi\u00adci\u00adle va ver\u00adso lo zero. Quan\u00addo le cose non ci van\u00adno pi\u00f9 bene, quan\u00addo sen\u00adti\u00adamo di anda\u00adre con\u00adtro\u00adcor\u00adren\u00adte, quan\u00addo le cose non van\u00adno come ave\u00adva\u00admo imma\u00adgi\u00adna\u00adto, non riuscia\u00admo a sop\u00adport\u00adar\u00adlo e scop\u00adpia\u00admo. Le paro\u00adle di Pao\u00adlo par\u00adla\u00adno di ques\u00adta situa\u00adzio\u00adne: \u00abSop\u00adpor\u00adta\u00adte\u00advi gli uni gli altri e per\u00addo\u00adna\u00adte\u00advi a vicen\u00adda, se uno \u00e8 in lite con un alt\u00adro; come il Signo\u00adre vi ha per\u00addo\u00adna\u00adto, cos\u00ec anche voi! Ma a tut\u00adto ques\u00adto aggi\u00adunge\u00adte l\u2019a\u00admo\u00adre, che \u00e8 il vin\u00adco\u00adlo del\u00adla per\u00adfe\u00adzio\u00adne!\u00bb. (Colos\u00adse\u00adsi 3:13f ELB<\/span>).
\nSop\u00adpor\u00adta\u00adte\u00advi a vicen\u00adda! Anche quan\u00addo abbia\u00admo inves\u00adti\u00adto nella rela\u00adzio\u00adne e affron\u00adta\u00adto dirett\u00adamen\u00adte il con\u00adflit\u00adto, l\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro non diven\u00adta improv\u00advi\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adte una per\u00adso\u00adna diver\u00adsa. Dopo l\u2019ul\u00adti\u00admo ser\u00admo\u00adne, una per\u00adso\u00adna in una con\u00adver\u00adsa\u00adzio\u00adne pas\u00adto\u00adra\u00adle mi ha par\u00adla\u00adto di una rela\u00adzio\u00adne dif\u00adfi\u00adci\u00adle e di come sia sta\u00adta sfi\u00adda\u00adta a per\u00addo\u00adna\u00adre l\u2019al\u00adtra per\u00adso\u00adna. E poi ha det\u00adto: \u00abMa \u00e8 comun\u00adque ugual\u00admen\u00adte pater\u00adna\u00adli\u00adsti\u00adco\u00bb. Non pos\u00adsia\u00admo cam\u00adbia\u00adre l\u2019al\u00adtra per\u00adso\u00adna, rimar\u00adr\u00e0 lo stes\u00adso stra\u00adno uccel\u00adlo che \u00e8 semp\u00adre sta\u00adto \u2013 e anche noi rimar\u00adre\u00admo stra\u00adni uccel\u00adli. Dov\u00adre\u00admo quin\u00addi fare i con\u00adti con il fat\u00adto che Dio ha mes\u00adso nella nos\u00adt\u00adra vita ques\u00adta per\u00adso\u00adna con opi\u00adni\u00adoni par\u00adti\u00adco\u00adla\u00adri e com\u00adpor\u00adta\u00admen\u00adti impos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli. Infat\u00adti, solo quan\u00addo por\u00adti\u00adamo anche la capa\u00adci\u00adt\u00e0 di sop\u00adport\u00adare e sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adter\u00adci, sia\u00admo ver\u00ada\u00admen\u00adte adat\u00adti alla comunit\u00e0.
\nRecen\u00adte\u00admen\u00adte, uno dei nos\u00adtri fig\u00adli ha det\u00adto: \u00abL\u2019ar\u00adgo\u00admen\u00adto del con\u00addi\u00admen\u00adto per l\u2019in\u00adsa\u00adla\u00adta pro\u00adba\u00adbilm\u00aden\u00adte vi accom\u00adpa\u00adgner\u00e0 per il res\u00adto del\u00adla vos\u00adtra vita. L\u2019an\u00adtef\u00adat\u00adto del\u00adla sto\u00adria \u00e8 che mia mog\u00adlie ha l\u2019a\u00adbi\u00adtu\u00addi\u00adne di dilui\u00adre il con\u00addi\u00admen\u00adto per l\u2019in\u00adsa\u00adla\u00adta che com\u00adpra. Per me, il gus\u00adto e la vis\u00adco\u00adsi\u00adt\u00e0 non sono pi\u00f9 quel\u00adli giu\u00ads\u00adti. Fino\u00adra ques\u00adto ha por\u00adtato a dis\u00adcus\u00adsio\u00adni. Ora voglio sop\u00adport\u00adare ;-). Cer\u00adto, ci sono ques\u00adtio\u00adni pi\u00f9 essen\u00adzia\u00adli su cui non abbia\u00admo anco\u00adra tro\u00adva\u00adto un comu\u00adne deno\u00admi\u00adna\u00adto\u00adre, anche dopo 29 anni di matrimonio.
\nSop\u00adport\u00adare non deri\u00adva da un att\u00adeg\u00adgi\u00ada\u00admen\u00adto da vitti\u00adma impo\u00adten\u00adte, ma pre\u00adsup\u00adpo\u00adne una deter\u00admi\u00adna\u00adzio\u00adne spi\u00adri\u00adtua\u00adle. Mi sot\u00adto\u00adpon\u00adgo. Deci\u00addo atti\u00adva\u00admen\u00adte di sop\u00adport\u00adare ques\u00adto alt\u00adro-alt\u00adro. Ma pos\u00adsia\u00admo sop\u00adport\u00adare atti\u00adva\u00admen\u00adte solo se sia\u00admo dis\u00adpos\u00adti e capa\u00adci di per\u00addo\u00adna\u00adre. Con il per\u00addo\u00adno, ci pro\u00adt\u00adeg\u00adgi\u00ada\u00admo dal\u00adl\u2019\u00adac\u00adcu\u00admu\u00adla\u00adre den\u00adtro di noi rab\u00adbia e risen\u00adti\u00admen\u00adto, che finis\u00adco\u00adno per gira\u00adre come pen\u00adto\u00adle a pres\u00adsio\u00adne che min\u00adac\u00adcia\u00adno di esplo\u00adde\u00adre da un momen\u00adto all\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro. Det\u00adto ques\u00adto: Vivia\u00admo ogni gior\u00adno del fat\u00adto che Ges\u00f9 ci per\u00addo\u00adna. Riven\u00addichi\u00adamo cos\u00adtan\u00adte\u00admen\u00adte qual\u00adco\u00adsa che non dob\u00adbia\u00admo asso\u00adlu\u00adt\u00adamen\u00adte nega\u00adre all\u2019al\u00adtra persona.
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\nSi dice che una vol\u00adta qual\u00adcu\u00adno abbia det\u00adto a un sag\u00adgio: \u00abAscol\u00adta, devo dir\u00adti una cosa importan\u00adte sul tuo ami\u00adco\u00bb. \u00abAspet\u00adta un po\u00bb \u00bb, lo inter\u00adrup\u00adpe il sag\u00adgio. \u00abHai gi\u00e0 fat\u00adto pas\u00adsa\u00adre quello che vuoi dir\u00admi attra\u00adver\u00adso i tre seta\u00adc\u00adci?\u00bb. \u00abQua\u00adli tre seta\u00adc\u00adci?\u00bb \u00abQuin\u00addi ascol\u00adta\u00adte atten\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte! Il pri\u00admo seta\u00adc\u00adcio \u00e8 quello del\u00adla veri\u00adt\u00e0. Sei con\u00advin\u00adto che tut\u00adto quello che vuoi dir\u00admi sia vero?\u00bb. \u00abQues\u00adto no, l\u2019ho sen\u00adti\u00adto solo da altri\u00bb. \u00abMa all\u00ado\u00adra devi aver\u00adla fat\u00adta pas\u00adsa\u00adre attra\u00adver\u00adso l\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro seta\u00adc\u00adcio? \u00c8 il seta\u00adc\u00adcio del\u00adla bon\u00adt\u00e0\u00bb. L\u2019uo\u00admo arros\u00ads\u00ec e ris\u00adpo\u00adse: \u00abDevo con\u00adfes\u00adsa\u00adre di no\u00bb. \u00abE hai pen\u00adsa\u00adto al ter\u00adzo seta\u00adc\u00adcio e ti sei chies\u00adto se sareb\u00adbe uti\u00adle parl\u00adar\u00admi del mio ami\u00adco?\u00bb. \u00abUti\u00adle \u2013 non pro\u00adprio!\u00bb. \u00abVedi\u00bb, ris\u00adpo\u00adse il sag\u00adgio, \u00abse quello che vuoi dir\u00admi non \u00e8 n\u00e9 vero n\u00e9 buo\u00adno n\u00e9 uti\u00adle, \u00e8 meglio che lo tieni per te\u00bb.
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\nPos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli doman\u00adde per i pic\u00adco\u00adli gruppi
\nLeg\u00adge\u00adre il tes\u00adto del\u00adla Bibbia: Efe\u00adsi\u00adni 4:25\u201327; Colos\u00adse\u00adsi 3:13\u201314<\/p>\n
\n\tDopo ques\u00adto ser\u00admo\u00adne, qual \u00e8 il tuo pia\u00adno d\u2019a\u00adzio\u00adne per\u00adso\u00adna\u00adle per gesti\u00adre i conflitti?
\n\tCi sono esem\u00adpi in cui sop\u00adpor\u00adti le cose degli altri? Lo fai atti\u00adva\u00admen\u00adte o ti sen\u00adti una vittima?
\n\tPer\u00adch\u00e9 il per\u00addo\u00adno \u00e8 una par\u00adte essen\u00adzia\u00adle del\u00adla riso\u00adlu\u00adzi\u00ado\u00adne dei con\u00adflit\u00adti (Colos\u00adse\u00adsi 3:13)? Cosa suc\u00adce\u00adde quan\u00addo sop\u00adpor\u00adti\u00adamo ma non perdoniamo?
\n\tParl\u00ada\u00adre \u00e8 un \u00abpro\u00adces\u00adso di pro\u00adcrea\u00adzio\u00adne\u00bb che pu\u00f2 esse\u00adre vivi\u00adfi\u00adcan\u00adte o dis\u00adtrut\u00adtivo. Come e dove potres\u00adti esse\u00adre un dis\u00adpen\u00adsa\u00adto\u00adre di vita nella prossi\u00adma settimana?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"