Tes\u00adto bibli\u00adco: Corin\u00adzi 13:13 | Pre\u00addi\u00adca\u00adto\u00adre: Bern\u00adhard Hohl | Serie: Wel\u00adco\u00adme Home | Dio ha crea\u00adto il matri\u00admo\u00adnio come un dono per noi uomi\u00adni. Qua\u00adli sono le sfi\u00adde del matri\u00admo\u00adnio? E cosa fan\u00adno l\u2019uo\u00admo e la don\u00adna per far dura\u00adre il matri\u00admo\u00adnio fin\u00adch\u00e9 mor\u00adte non ci sepa\u00adri? Qual \u00e8 la posi\u00adzio\u00adne di mari\u00adto e mog\u00adlie nella comu\u00adni\u00adt\u00e0 cris\u00adtia\u00adna? Ci sono cor\u00adsi di matri\u00admo\u00adnio che dura\u00adno diver\u00adse set\u00adti\u00adma\u00adne. Una cop\u00adpia vie\u00adne pre\u00adpa\u00adra\u00adta al matri\u00admo\u00adnio in diver\u00adsi incon\u00adtri. E ora dov\u00adrei pre\u00adsen\u00adta\u00adre un ser\u00admo\u00adne in 25 minu\u00adti che si rivol\u00adga al mag\u00adgi\u00ador nume\u00adro pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adle di per\u00adso\u00adne e che arric\u00adchis\u00adca e cam\u00adbi i matrimoni?!
\nPer ini\u00adzia\u00adre, far\u00f2 un bre\u00adve ripas\u00adso del\u00adla crea\u00adzio\u00adne del\u00adl\u2019uo\u00admo e del\u00adla don\u00adna; poi alcu\u00adni pen\u00adsie\u00adri sul tema: Il matri\u00admo\u00adnio secon\u00addo il cuo\u00adre di Dio. Poi ci por\u00adre\u00admo due doman\u00adde: qua\u00adli sono le sfi\u00adde del matri\u00admo\u00adnio? E: cosa fan\u00adno l\u2019uo\u00admo e la don\u00adna per far dura\u00adre un matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u2013 fin\u00adch\u00e9 mor\u00adte non li sepa\u00adri? Infi\u00adne, alcu\u00adni fat\u00adti di Pao\u00adlo sul\u00adla posi\u00adzio\u00adne del\u00adl\u2019uo\u00admo e del\u00adla don\u00adna nella chiesa.<\/p>\n
Base \tIl fat\u00adto che oggi pi\u00f9 di un matri\u00admo\u00adnio su tre fal\u00adlis\u00adce e vie\u00adne sciol\u00adto \u00e8 inquie\u00adtan\u00adte. Inolt\u00adre, mol\u00adti han\u00adno gi\u00e0 avu\u00adto una rela\u00adzio\u00adne fallita. A un cer\u00adto pun\u00adto sor\u00adge anche la doman\u00adda: \u00abRiuscir\u00f2 a sta\u00adre con lo stes\u00adso part\u00adner per almeno mez\u00adzo seco\u00adlo?\u00bb. Ques\u00adto \u00e8 infi\u00adni\u00adto! Uno ha pau\u00adra di ques\u00adto. E in effet\u00adti, mol\u00adti matri\u00admo\u00adni sono anco\u00adra divor\u00adzia\u00adti quan\u00addo i fig\u00adli han\u00adno lascia\u00adto la casa. Ma sono anco\u00adra pi\u00f9 con\u00adten\u00adto del fat\u00adto che, nono\u00adstan\u00adte tut\u00adto, semp\u00adre pi\u00f9 gio\u00adva\u00adni vogli\u00ado\u00adno ris\u00adpo\u00adsar\u00adsi e met\u00adte\u00adre su famiglia. \tCome spe\u00adri\u00admen\u00adta la coe\u00adsis\u00adten\u00adza di uomi\u00adni e don\u00adne nella vita quo\u00adti\u00addia\u00adna, nella socie\u00adt\u00e0, nel lavoro e nella comunit\u00e0? Tes\u00adto bibli\u00adco: Corin\u00adzi 13:13 | Pre\u00addi\u00adca\u00adto\u00adre: Bern\u00adhard Hohl | Serie: Wel\u00adco\u00adme Home | Dio ha crea\u00adto il matri\u00admo\u00adnio come un dono per noi uomi\u00adni. Qua\u00adli sono le sfi\u00adde del matri\u00admo\u00adnio? E cosa fan\u00adno l\u2019uo\u00admo e la don\u00adna per far dura\u00adre il matri\u00admo\u00adnio fin\u00adch\u00e9 mor\u00adte non ci sepa\u00adri? Qual \u00e8 la posi\u00adzio\u00adne di mari\u00adto e moglie\u2026?<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","wpfc_preacher":[35],"wpfc_sermon_series":[53],"wpfc_sermon_topics":[],"wpfc_bible_book":[],"wpfc_service_type":[12],"class_list":["wpfc_preacher-bernhard-hohl","wpfc_sermon_series-willkommen-daheim","wpfc-sermon-single","post-2562","wpfc_sermon","type-wpfc_sermon","status-publish","hentry","wpfc_service_type-gottesdienst"],"acf":[],"sermons_blog_filters_topics":"\t\t\t\t
\n\u00abE Dio cre\u00f2 l\u2019uo\u00admo a sua imma\u00adgi\u00adne, a imma\u00adgi\u00adne di Dio lo cre\u00f2; e li cre\u00f2 maschio e femmi\u00adna\u00bb (Gene\u00adsi 1:27 LU<\/span>). Dio ha crea\u00adto noi esse\u00adri uma\u00adni per esse\u00adre la sua con\u00adtro\u00adpar\u00adte. Si potreb\u00adbe anche dire in sua pre\u00adsen\u00adza. Dob\u00adbia\u00admo esse\u00adre come lui, come esse\u00adri dota\u00adti di libe\u00adro arbi\u00adtrio e pote\u00adre decis\u00adio\u00adna\u00adle. \u00abL\u2019E\u00adter\u00adno Dio fece l\u2019uo\u00admo con la pol\u00advere del suo\u00adlo e gli sof\u00adfi\u00f2 nel\u00adle nari\u00adci l\u2019a\u00adli\u00adto del\u00adla vita. E cos\u00ec l\u2019uo\u00admo diven\u00adne un esse\u00adre viven\u00adte\u00bb (Gene\u00adsi 2:7 LU<\/span>). Quin\u00addi non \u00e8 che Dio ha schioc\u00adca\u00adto le dita e l\u2019uo\u00admo si \u00e8 tro\u00adva\u00adto davan\u00adti a lui! Lo ha for\u00adma\u00adto dal\u00adla tes\u00adta ai pie\u00addi! Non man\u00adca\u00adva nes\u00adsun det\u00adtaglio, per\u00adsi\u00adno le con\u00adfe\u00adzio\u00adni da sei erano pre\u00adsen\u00adti! Poi Dio pro\u00adse\u00adgue e cos\u00adtruis\u00adce la don\u00adna. L\u2019E\u00adter\u00adno Dio dis\u00adse: \u00abNon \u00e8 bene che l\u2019uo\u00admo sia solo; gli far\u00f2 un aiuto adat\u00adto a lui\u00bb (Gene\u00adsi 2:18 LU<\/span>). \u00abGli far\u00f2 incon\u00adtra\u00adre un aiuto\u00bb pu\u00f2 esse\u00adre frain\u00adte\u00adso due vol\u00adte: La don\u00adna non \u00e8 al di sopra del\u00adl\u2019uo\u00admo nel sen\u00adso di \u00abOh, il povero uomo biso\u00adgno\u00adso di aiuto ha biso\u00adg\u00adno di una don\u00adna for\u00adte al suo fian\u00adco\u00bb; e d\u2019al\u00adtra par\u00adte, nem\u00admeno l\u2019uo\u00admo inten\u00adde deg\u00adra\u00adda\u00adre la don\u00adna in gene\u00adra\u00adle ad aiutan\u00adte. La per\u00adfe\u00adzio\u00adne dei due esse\u00adri uma\u00adni crea\u00adti da Dio sta nella loro unione!
\n\u00abAll\u00ado\u00adra l\u2019E\u00adter\u00adno Dio fece cade\u00adre un son\u00adno pro\u00adfon\u00addo sul\u00adl\u2019uo\u00admo ed egli si addor\u00admen\u00adt\u00f2. Poi pre\u00adse una del\u00adle sue cos\u00adto\u00adle e la richi\u00aduse con la car\u00adne. L\u2019E\u00adter\u00adno Dio cos\u00adtru\u00ec una don\u00adna dal\u00adla cos\u00adto\u00adla che ave\u00adva pre\u00adso dal\u00adl\u2019uo\u00admo e glie\u00adla por\u00adt\u00f2\u00bb (Gene\u00adsi 2:21\u201322 LU<\/span>). In ques\u00adta descri\u00adzio\u00adne, alcu\u00adne cose sono note\u00advo\u00adli: la don\u00adna \u00e8 crea\u00adta da una par\u00adte del\u00adl\u2019uo\u00admo! Ques\u00adto fat\u00adto di per s\u00e9 col\u00adle\u00adga i due esse\u00adri diver\u00adsi. Dio ha for\u00adma\u00adto mol\u00adto bene l\u2019uo\u00admo e ha cos\u00adtrui\u00adto mol\u00adto bene la don\u00adna e l\u2019ha for\u00adma\u00adta in modo ingegno\u00adso! Su ques\u00adta base, sos\u00adtenia\u00admo quan\u00adto segue: Dio ha volu\u00adto che l\u2019uo\u00admo e la don\u00adna fos\u00adse\u00adro due ses\u00adsi diver\u00adsi, con due for\u00adme cor\u00adpo\u00adree diver\u00adse. Gli uomi\u00adni sono diver\u00adsi dal\u00adle don\u00adne, sono cos\u00adtrui\u00adti in modo diver\u00adso a secon\u00adda del\u00adle loro responsa\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 e dei loro com\u00adpi\u00adti e sono dota\u00adti di doni diver\u00adsi. Sia l\u2019uo\u00admo che la don\u00adna sono ugua\u00adli e degni di esse\u00adre imma\u00adgi\u00adne di Dio. Ent\u00adram\u00adbi sono sta\u00adti crea\u00adti per esse\u00adre una con\u00adtro\u00adpar\u00adte l\u2019u\u00adno del\u00adl\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro. Si com\u00adple\u00adt\u00ada\u00adno a vicen\u00adda in un modo che non potreb\u00adbe esse\u00adre miglio\u00adre. Quan\u00adto affer\u00adma\u00adto si appli\u00adca in linea di prin\u00adci\u00adpio alla coe\u00adsis\u00adten\u00adza di uomi\u00adni e don\u00adne in gene\u00adra\u00adle nella vita quo\u00adti\u00addia\u00adna, sul pos\u00adto di lavoro e nella socie\u00adt\u00e0. Su ques\u00adta base, vor\u00adrei dire a tut\u00adti voi, cari uomi\u00adni e don\u00adne: Sie\u00adte mol\u00adto pre\u00adzio\u00adsi, che sia\u00adte sin\u00adgle, spo\u00adsa\u00adti, vedo\u00advi o divor\u00adzia\u00adti! Sie\u00adte tut\u00adti pre\u00adzio\u00adsi, anche qui nella con\u00adgre\u00adga\u00adzio\u00adne. Voi don\u00adne fate bene a noi uomi\u00adni, voi uomi\u00adni fate bene alle don\u00adne qui, sen\u00adza l\u2019u\u00adno o l\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro grup\u00adpo ci man\u00adcher\u00adeb\u00adbe mol\u00adto, molto!
\nIl matri\u00admo\u00adnio secon\u00addo il cuo\u00adre di Dio
\nDio non ha abban\u00addo\u00adna\u00adto la cop\u00adpia crea\u00adta a se stes\u00adsa, nem\u00admeno dopo la cadu\u00adta. Tor\u00adna in giar\u00addi\u00adno e vuo\u00adle vede\u00adre come stan\u00adno! Sono con\u00advin\u00adta che Dio sia inter\u00ades\u00adsa\u00adto a come sta\u00adte andan\u00addo nei vos\u00adtri matri\u00admo\u00adni! Per\u00adch\u00e9 il matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 sta\u00adta una sua idea! Ecco per\u00adch\u00e9 si preoc\u00adcu\u00adpa dei vos\u00adtri matri\u00admo\u00adni! Gi\u00e0 al momen\u00adto del\u00adla crea\u00adzio\u00adne del\u00adl\u2019uo\u00admo e del\u00adla don\u00adna, Dio ave\u00adva in men\u00adte la fami\u00adglia. Da qui il suo coman\u00addo: \u00abSia\u00adte fecon\u00addi e mol\u00adti\u00adpli\u00adca\u00adte\u00advi, riem\u00adpi\u00adte la ter\u00adra e sog\u00adgio\u00adga\u00adte\u00adla\u00bb (Gene\u00adsi 1:28 LU<\/span>). Il matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 pro\u00adfon\u00adda\u00admen\u00adte vivi\u00adfi\u00adcan\u00adte! Non mi rife\u00adris\u00adco solo alla gra\u00advi\u00addan\u00adza! Come cop\u00adpia vi pren\u00adde\u00adte cura l\u2019u\u00adno del\u00adl\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro. Ent\u00adram\u00adbi i part\u00adner si aiuta\u00adno a vicen\u00adda a svi\u00adlup\u00adpar\u00adsi e a cre\u00adsce\u00adre. Pur\u00adtrop\u00adpo negli ulti\u00admi anni il matri\u00admo\u00adnio \u00e8 sta\u00adto semp\u00adre pi\u00f9 sva\u00adlu\u00adta\u00adto. Ed \u00e8 visi\u00adbilm\u00aden\u00adte semp\u00adre meno valo\u00adriz\u00adza\u00adto. Le per\u00adso\u00adne han\u00adno semp\u00adre pi\u00f9 ris\u00adpet\u00adto per il pat\u00adto matri\u00admo\u00adnia\u00adle, per due motivi:<\/p>\n
\n\tAnche le aspett\u00ada\u00adti\u00adve mol\u00adto alte del matri\u00admo\u00adnio sono inquie\u00adtan\u00adti. La vita dov\u00adreb\u00adbe offrir\u00adci cos\u00ec tan\u00adto. Influ\u00adenza\u00adti dai media, non sia\u00admo mai sen\u00adza desi\u00adde\u00adri. Dopo tut\u00adto, il coniuge dov\u00adreb\u00adbe sod\u00addis\u00adfa\u00adre i miei biso\u00adgni. E poi ho i miei inter\u00ades\u00adsi e le mie atti\u00advi\u00adt\u00e0 di sva\u00adgo che voglio anche man\u00adte\u00adnere. E soprat\u00adtut\u00adto c\u2019\u00e8 la pres\u00adsio\u00adne del lavoro, del lavoro.<\/p>\n
\nQua\u00adli sono le sfi\u00adde di un matri\u00admo\u00adnio cris\u00adtia\u00adno di successo?
\na) Ci vogli\u00ado\u00adno anni per cono\u00adscer\u00adsi dav\u00advero bene. I model\u00adli com\u00adpor\u00adta\u00admen\u00adta\u00adli o le abi\u00adtu\u00addi\u00adni che sono nuo\u00advi per voi \u2013 sia posi\u00adti\u00advi che nega\u00adti\u00advi \u2013 si mani\u00adfest\u00ada\u00adno di tan\u00adto in tan\u00adto nel vos\u00adtro part\u00adner. \u00c8 importan\u00adte par\u00adl\u00adar\u00adne! Parl\u00ada\u00adre e parl\u00ada\u00adre anco\u00adra \u2013 e non arren\u00adder\u00adsi mai. Non arren\u00adde\u00adte\u00advi mai l\u2019un l\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro! Se c\u2019\u00e8 qual\u00adco\u00adsa che ti infas\u00adti\u00addis\u00adce del tuo part\u00adner, pren\u00addi\u00adti il com\u00adpi\u00adto di lavor\u00adar\u00adci sopra. Fate\u00adlo sul\u00adla base del\u00adla gra\u00adti\u00adtu\u00addi\u00adne e ringra\u00adzia\u00adte semp\u00adre per tut\u00adte le cose buo\u00adne che ave\u00adte gi\u00e0 vis\u00adsuto come cop\u00adpia. Ringra\u00adzia\u00adre non solo ren\u00adde i pro\u00adble\u00admi pi\u00f9 pic\u00adco\u00adli, ma aiu\u00adta a lavora\u00adre attra\u00adver\u00adso le cose che vogli\u00ado\u00adno met\u00adter\u00adsi tra di voi come un cuneo. Per favore, non pas\u00adsa\u00adte mai la spug\u00adna su di loro e non spaz\u00adz\u00adate\u00adli sot\u00adto il tap\u00adpe\u00adto. Altri\u00admen\u00adti si cre\u00ada\u00adno mon\u00adtagne insor\u00admon\u00adta\u00adbi\u00adli. E se voi due non rius\u00adci\u00adte a tene\u00adre le cose sot\u00adto con\u00adtrol\u00adlo, cer\u00adca\u00adte aiuto il pri\u00adma possibile.
\nb) Una vita spi\u00adri\u00adtua\u00adle comu\u00adne! Uomi\u00adni, mano sul cuo\u00adre: sape\u00adte se le vost\u00adre mog\u00adli leg\u00adgo\u00adno mai la Bibbia nella loro vita quo\u00adti\u00addia\u00adna? Voi don\u00adne ave\u00adte idea se e quan\u00addo i vos\u00adtri mari\u00adti pre\u00adga\u00adno? \u00abNo, nessuna idea!\u00bb Se ques\u00adta \u00e8 la tua ris\u00adpos\u00adta, all\u00ado\u00adra chie\u00addi\u00adglie\u00adlo oggi, e allo stes\u00adso tem\u00adpo chie\u00addig\u00adli se non dov\u00adres\u00adti pro\u00adva\u00adre a fare di nuo\u00advo una let\u00adtu\u00adra del\u00adla Bibbia e un tem\u00adpo di preg\u00adhie\u00adra insieme!
\nc) Un\u2019al\u00adtra sfi\u00adda del\u00adle cop\u00adpie spo\u00adsa\u00adte \u00e8 ave\u00adre una vita ses\u00adsua\u00adle sod\u00addis\u00adfa\u00adcen\u00adte nel cor\u00adso degli anni. Vivia\u00admo in un\u2019epo\u00adca in cui il ses\u00adso non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 un tab\u00f9. La ses\u00adsua\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 \u00e8 un argo\u00admen\u00adto onni\u00adpre\u00adsen\u00adte. I media ne par\u00adla\u00adno mol\u00adto bene. Ques\u00adto lo influ\u00aden\u00adza. Eppu\u00adre le cop\u00adpie spo\u00adsa\u00adte di oggi han\u00adno anco\u00adra dif\u00adfi\u00adcol\u00adt\u00e0 a parl\u00ada\u00adre aper\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte e one\u00ads\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte dei momen\u00adti pi\u00f9 inti\u00admi del loro matri\u00admo\u00adnio con il loro part\u00adner. Anche qui, non \u00e8 pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adle sen\u00adza parlarsi.
\nd) Il mari\u00adto, come la mog\u00adlie, ent\u00adram\u00adbi incon\u00adtreran\u00adno di tan\u00adto in tan\u00adto per\u00adso\u00adne che han\u00adno esat\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte le qua\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 e i van\u00adtag\u00adgi che il suo coniuge non ha. C\u2019\u00e8 un gran\u00adde per\u00adi\u00adco\u00adlo che il dia\u00advo\u00adlo semi\u00adni nel vos\u00adtro cuo\u00adre desi\u00adde\u00adri segre\u00adti che vi fer\u00adm\u00aden\u00adter\u00adan\u00adno. Quan\u00addo il flirt diven\u00adta un incen\u00addio e si accen\u00addo\u00adno i cam\u00adpa\u00adnel\u00adli d\u2019all\u00adar\u00adme, spes\u00adso \u00e8 gi\u00e0 trop\u00adpo tardi!
\nCi\u00f2 che Ges\u00f9 dice a ques\u00adto pro\u00adpo\u00adsi\u00adto \u00e8 chia\u00adra\u00admen\u00adte com\u00adpren\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adle: \u00abChi\u00adunque guar\u00adda una don\u00adna per con\u00adcu\u00adp\u00adir\u00adla, ha gi\u00e0 com\u00admes\u00adso adul\u00adte\u00adrio con lei nel suo cuo\u00adre\u00bb (Matteo 5:28 LU<\/span>). Per\u00adtan\u00adto: \u00abImpe\u00addi\u00adte gli ini\u00adzi! L\u2019u\u00adni\u00adca cosa che aiu\u00adta \u00e8 una vita di gran\u00adde aper\u00adtu\u00adra. La segre\u00adtez\u00adza pu\u00f2 diven\u00adta\u00adre rapi\u00adda\u00admen\u00adte sinis\u00adtra! Se si pu\u00f2 parl\u00ada\u00adre one\u00ads\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte e aper\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte dei pro\u00adpri sen\u00adti\u00admen\u00adti ver\u00adso l\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro ses\u00adso con il part\u00adner, si eli\u00admi\u00adna ogni pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 di adul\u00adte\u00adrio. Se un uomo dice aper\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte alla mog\u00adlie che ques\u00adta o quella don\u00adna lo affa\u00adsci\u00adna, gli tog\u00adlie il pote\u00adre del\u00adla ten\u00adta\u00adzio\u00adne e lo libe\u00adra di sta\u00adre atten\u00adto e di man\u00adte\u00adnere le distan\u00adze da ques\u00adta don\u00adna. Al con\u00adtra\u00adrio, se vos\u00adtra mog\u00adlie si entus\u00adi\u00adas\u00adma aper\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte per le qua\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 e le bel\u00adlez\u00adze di un alt\u00adro uomo, all\u00ado\u00adra la segre\u00adtez\u00adza non ha alcu\u00adna pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 \u2013 ma ascol\u00adta\u00adte atten\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte, for\u00adse pote\u00adte miglio\u00adra\u00adre qual\u00adco\u00adsa di voi stes\u00adsi! Ent\u00adram\u00adbi i part\u00adner devo\u00adno presta\u00adre atten\u00adzio\u00adne a non voler spin\u00adg\u00ade\u00adre la pro\u00adpria con\u00adtro\u00adpar\u00adte nel pro\u00adfi\u00adlo del\u00adl\u2019uo\u00admo o del\u00adla don\u00adna dei sogni.
\nCosa fan\u00adno l\u2019uo\u00admo e la don\u00adna per far dura\u00adre il matri\u00admo\u00adnio fin\u00adch\u00e9 mor\u00adte non li separi?
\na) Quan\u00addo i geni\u00adto\u00adri edu\u00adca\u00adno ent\u00adram\u00adbi i fig\u00adli, si assu\u00admo\u00adno ent\u00adram\u00adbi la responsa\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e0 del\u00adle ques\u00adtio\u00adni sco\u00adla\u00ads\u00adti\u00adche, rac\u00adcon\u00adta\u00adno ai fig\u00adli sto\u00adrie bibli\u00adche e pre\u00adga\u00adno con loro.
\nb) Pun\u00adt\u00ada\u00adre osti\u00adna\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte a cele\u00adbra\u00adre il tem\u00adpo come cop\u00adpia anco\u00adra e anco\u00adra. Pia\u00adni\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adte le sera\u00adte di matri\u00admo\u00adnio e orga\u00adniz\u00adza\u00adte pres\u00adto, i fine set\u00adti\u00adma\u00adna e le vacan\u00adze che pas\u00adsa\u00adte solo voi due.
\nc) Amici comu\u00adni. Buo\u00adni rap\u00adpor\u00adti con le fami\u00adg\u00adlie i cui fig\u00adli han\u00adno cir\u00adca la stes\u00adsa et\u00e0 dei vos\u00adtri. Buo\u00adne rela\u00adzio\u00adni con sin\u00adgle, geni\u00adto\u00adri sin\u00adgle e vedove.
\nd) Par\u00adte\u00adci\u00adpa\u00adzio\u00adne nella comu\u00adni\u00adt\u00e0. Pia\u00adni\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adte insie\u00adme, chi potreb\u00adbe aiut\u00ada\u00adre dove e quan\u00addo? For\u00adse si aprir\u00e0 anche una col\u00adla\u00adbo\u00adra\u00adzio\u00adne comu\u00adne nella musi\u00adca, in un coro o in un grup\u00adpo teatrale!
\ne) La fase del\u00adl\u2019in\u00advec\u00adchi\u00adamen\u00adto deve esse\u00adre ben pre\u00adpa\u00adra\u00adta da una cop\u00adpia. Cosa fac\u00adcia\u00admo quan\u00addo i bam\u00adbi\u00adni han\u00adno lascia\u00adto la casa? Pia\u00adni\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adte insie\u00adme. Par\u00adla\u00adte dei desi\u00adde\u00adri e dei sogni, date\u00advi la liber\u00adt\u00e0 per i vos\u00adtri hob\u00adby, per esem\u00adpio l\u2019is\u00adtru\u00adzi\u00ado\u00adne (fre\u00adquen\u00adta\u00adre le lezio\u00adni), i gio\u00adchi e gli sport, la let\u00adtu\u00adra. Ros\u00adma\u00adrie ed io can\u00adti\u00adamo insie\u00adme in un coro gos\u00adpel; con gli amici mi pia\u00adce gio\u00adca\u00adre a boc\u00adce, le par\u00adti\u00adte di ten\u00adnis e di cal\u00adcio sono pi\u00f9 i miei pro\u00adgram\u00admi tele\u00advi\u00adsi\u00advi personali.
\ne) Accet\u00adta semp\u00adre te stes\u00adso, anche se il tuo cor\u00adpo sta invec\u00adchi\u00adan\u00addo, la tua memo\u00adria a vol\u00adte ti abban\u00addo\u00adna o un pro\u00adble\u00adma di salu\u00adte si met\u00adte in mezzo.
\nPosi\u00adzio\u00adne del\u00adl\u2019uo\u00admo e del\u00adla don\u00adna nella comunit\u00e0
\nSul matri\u00admo\u00adnio cris\u00adtia\u00adno, sono pre\u00adzio\u00adse le osser\u00adva\u00adzio\u00adni di Pao\u00adlo in Efe\u00adsi\u00adni, capi\u00adto\u00adlo 5: \u00abSot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adte\u00adte\u00advi volen\u00adtie\u00adri gli uni agli altri per ris\u00adpet\u00adto a Cris\u00adto\u2026\u00bb (Efe\u00adsi\u00adni 5:21 NL<\/span>). Pri\u00adma di rivol\u00adger\u00adsi alle mog\u00adli, Pao\u00adlo sot\u00adto\u00adli\u00adnea che tut\u00adti dob\u00adbia\u00admo sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adter\u00adci gli uni agli altri. Che cosa signi\u00adfi\u00adca? Pren\u00adde\u00adte sul serio l\u2019al\u00adtra per\u00adso\u00adna, il suo pen\u00adsie\u00adro, il suo sen\u00adti\u00admen\u00adto, il suo esse\u00adre cos\u00ec \u2013 anche se tut\u00adto \u00e8 com\u00adple\u00adta\u00admen\u00adte diver\u00adso dal vos\u00adtro modo di esse\u00adre! Sia\u00admo diver\u00adsi e ques\u00adto \u00e8 un bene. Sia\u00admo sta\u00adti crea\u00adti per com\u00adplet\u00adar\u00adci a vicen\u00adda. Sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adter\u00adsi l\u2019u\u00adno all\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro signi\u00adfi\u00adca ris\u00adpet\u00adta\u00adre l\u2019al\u00adt\u00adro pi\u00f9 di se stes\u00adsi. Pao\u00adlo ora istruis\u00adce le mog\u00adli a sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adter\u00adsi ai loro mari\u00adti: \u00abMog\u00adli, sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adte\u00adte\u00advi ai vos\u00adtri mari\u00adti, come vi sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adte\u00adte al Signo\u00adre. Il mari\u00adto, infat\u00adti, \u00e8 il capo del\u00adla mog\u00adlie, cos\u00ec come Cris\u00adto \u00e8 il capo del suo cor\u00adpo, la Chie\u00adsa, per la qua\u00adle ha dato la vita per sal\u00advar\u00adla. Come la Chie\u00adsa si sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adte a Cris\u00adto, anche voi mog\u00adli dove\u00adte sot\u00adto\u00admet\u00adter\u00advi ai vos\u00adtri mari\u00adti in tut\u00adto!\u00bb. (Efe\u00adsi\u00adni 5:22\u201324 NL<\/span>) Ques\u00adto \u00e8 for\u00adte! Non posso\u00adno far\u00adlo e non vogli\u00ado\u00adno far\u00adlo! Ma man\u00adte\u00adnia\u00admo il para\u00adgo\u00adne: Cris\u00adto come capo del\u00adla chie\u00adsa pen\u00adsa e si pren\u00adde cura del\u00adla chie\u00adsa affin\u00adch\u00e9 pos\u00adsa rag\u00adgi\u00adunge\u00adre la meta e svi\u00adlup\u00adpar\u00adsi in modo glo\u00adrio\u00adso. La con\u00adgre\u00adga\u00adzio\u00adne deve ascol\u00adta\u00adre Ges\u00f9 e rima\u00adne\u00adre in con\u00adtat\u00adto con lui.
\nLa sub\u00ador\u00addi\u00adna\u00adzio\u00adne sareb\u00adbe cos\u00ec per la don\u00adna: lei gode che l\u2019uo\u00admo si pren\u00adda cura di lei, ascol\u00adta il mari\u00adto, lo ris\u00adpet\u00adta, cer\u00adca di capir\u00adlo e rima\u00adne lega\u00adta a lui. La mag\u00adgi\u00ador par\u00adte del\u00adle dis\u00adcus\u00adsio\u00adni spes\u00adso non ten\u00adgo\u00adno con\u00adto di ques\u00adto aspet\u00adto; si vuo\u00adle solo affer\u00adma\u00adre se stes\u00adsi con\u00adtro l\u2019uo\u00admo e ave\u00adre ragione.
\nE ora ai mari\u00adti: \u00abE voi, mari\u00adti, ama\u00adte le vost\u00adre mog\u00adli con lo stes\u00adso amo\u00adre con cui Cris\u00adto ha ama\u00adto la Chie\u00adsa\u00bb (Efe\u00adsi\u00adni 5:25 NL<\/span>). Ques\u00adto \u00e8 anco\u00adra pi\u00f9 for\u00adte. Ora \u00e8 gi\u00e0 Ges\u00f9 che devo\u00adno pren\u00adde\u00adre come esem\u00adpio. Anche qui si potreb\u00adbe dire: \u00abNon posso\u00adno far\u00adlo! Quello \u00e8 il mar\u00adtel\u00adlo! Ora dov\u00adrei chie\u00adde\u00adre alle mog\u00adli: sen\u00adti\u00adte qual\u00adco\u00adsa di ques\u00adto amo\u00adre sopr\u00adan\u00adna\u00adtu\u00adra\u00adle e divi\u00adno dei vos\u00adtri mari\u00adti? Pao\u00adlo ha in ser\u00adbo anche un alt\u00adro para\u00adgo\u00adne per gli uomi\u00adni: \u00abAllo stes\u00adso modo, i mari\u00adti devo\u00adno ama\u00adre le loro mog\u00adli come i loro cor\u00adpi. Per\u00adch\u00e9 un uomo ama anche se stes\u00adso quan\u00addo ama sua mog\u00adlie. Nes\u00adsu\u00adno odia il pro\u00adprio cor\u00adpo, ma se ne pren\u00adde cura con amo\u00adre, pro\u00adprio come Cris\u00adto si pren\u00adde cura del suo cor\u00adpo, cio\u00e8 del\u00adla Chie\u00adsa. E noi appar\u00adte\u00adnia\u00admo al suo cor\u00adpo\u00bb (Efe\u00adsi\u00adni 5:28\u201330 NL<\/span>). Una mog\u00adlie cos\u00ec ama\u00adta e ono\u00adra\u00adta ascol\u00adta volen\u00adtie\u00adri il mari\u00adto e ricam\u00adbia l\u2019a\u00admo\u00adre. L\u2019a\u00admo\u00adre che i mari\u00adti dan\u00adno alle loro mog\u00adli ritor\u00adna a loro. Tale alle\u00adan\u00adza matri\u00admo\u00adnia\u00adle \u00e8 seg\u00adna\u00adta dal per\u00addo\u00adno, dal\u00adla volon\u00adt\u00e0 di rico\u00admin\u00adcia\u00adre e dal\u00adla fidu\u00adcia in Dio, che ci d\u00e0 semp\u00adre ci\u00f2 di cui abbia\u00admo biso\u00adg\u00adno per il nos\u00adtro coniuge. Pao\u00adlo con\u00adclude ques\u00adto pas\u00adso del capi\u00adto\u00adlo 5 con una ripe\u00adti\u00adzio\u00adne: \u00abPer\u00adci\u00f2 ripe\u00adto che ogni mari\u00adto ami la pro\u00adpria mog\u00adlie come se stes\u00adso, e che la mog\u00adlie ris\u00adpet\u00adti e sti\u00admi il pro\u00adprio mari\u00adto\u00bb (Efe\u00adsi\u00adni 5:33 NL<\/span>). I matri\u00admo\u00adni sani sono una bene\u00addi\u00adzio\u00adne di Dio. Sono il fon\u00adda\u00admen\u00adto di una chie\u00adsa sana e di una nazio\u00adne sana.
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\nPos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli doman\u00adde per i pic\u00adco\u00adli gruppi
\nLeg\u00adgi il tes\u00adto del\u00adla Bibbia: Corin\u00adzi 13:13<\/p>\n
\n\tLe don\u00adne pre\u00adsen\u00adti spe\u00adri\u00admen\u00adta\u00adno apprezzamen\u00adti o umi\u00adlia\u00adzio\u00adni nella vita quotidiana?
\n\tIl gri\u00addo per le quo\u00adte rosa \u00e8 giu\u00adsti\u00adfi\u00adca\u00adto, e se s\u00ec, quando?
\n\tGli indi\u00advi\u00addui o le cop\u00adpie posso\u00adno con\u00addi\u00advi\u00adde\u00adre ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 diven\u00adta\u00adto importan\u00adte e pre\u00adzio\u00adso per loro nel sermone?
\n\tPuoi aggi\u00adunge\u00adre qual\u00adco\u00adsa alle due doman\u00adde: cosa \u00e8 importan\u00adte per un matri\u00admo\u00adnio di suc\u00adces\u00adso e cosa \u00e8 uti\u00adle per una rela\u00adzio\u00adne dura\u00adtura e fede\u00adle a lungo termine?
\n\tCosa potreb\u00adbe fare di pi\u00f9 la chie\u00adsa per i sin\u00adgle, i geni\u00adto\u00adri sin\u00adgle, i divor\u00adzia\u00adti, le vedove?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"